http://www.askelainenow.com/blog/commitment-advice/what-will-turn-his-lack-of-commitment-into-a-commitment-for-you.html Relationship Coaching, Advice And Training For Women Tue, 17 Aug 2010 08:15:56 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=abc hourly 1 http://www.askelainenow.com/blog/commitment-advice/what-will-turn-his-lack-of-commitment-into-a-commitment-for-you.html/comment-page-1#comment-25 Elaine Bothwell Mon, 09 Aug 2010 10:53:27 +0000 http://www.askelainenow.com/blog/?p=1333#comment-25 Hi michele here is your audio reply- just click the link below. ( If it doesn't take you to the page, paste it into your browser) http://www.askelainenow.com/blog/q-a-replies Hi michele here is your audio reply- just click the link below. ( If it doesn’t take you to the page, paste it into your browser)
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]]> http://www.askelainenow.com/blog/commitment-advice/what-will-turn-his-lack-of-commitment-into-a-commitment-for-you.html/comment-page-1#comment-24 Michele Sat, 07 Aug 2010 04:21:05 +0000 http://www.askelainenow.com/blog/?p=1333#comment-24 Hi I've listerned to you tape and all sounds well and good, except my man that I've been living with for a little over a year is a very scared man. He never was married. Came from a very bad backround, parants drank and were abrusive. He has sessional depression, and he rearly smiles. I tell him that he's handsome and he looks good. I try to make him laugh and I even try to tickel him and he dosen't like that. He said that he loves me and that he's in love with me but not the same way that I'm in love with him. When I ask what does he mean, he saids that he dosen't have the qualitys in him as I. For I come from a very loving family. I don't think he knows how to love? He has good qualities and means well. I ask him all the time if he feels that maybe I should move out and he tells me no. He's not very affectionate. Sometimes he'll put his arms around me an gives me a kiss. Or a kiss on my forehead. He always tells me that he loves me. But when I mention the word Marriage, he goes through the roof. He dosen't like me mentioning the word. He was never married, and is about to retire in the next few months. I love this man, I want to be his wife, but as far as he's concerned he tells me don't you like living like this, why? do we need that piece of paper. He said that he has no knowledge of marriage, I told him marriage is just like the way we are living and shareing everything together. He said we could have a happy life together this way. I can't understand it. Also, he always lived alone, and likes being alone. He likes being together but he also likes being alone. He said that he thinks better this way. He like quiet and peace. Sometimes when I talk, he asked me not to talk because he likes silence? So try to figure out this one. How do you land a guy like this. Thanks for listering to me. Michele Hi I’ve listerned to you tape and all sounds well and good, except my man that I’ve been living with for a little over a year is a very scared man. He never was married. Came from a very bad backround, parants drank and were abrusive. He has sessional depression, and he rearly smiles. I tell him that he’s handsome and he looks good. I try to make him laugh and I even try to tickel him and he dosen’t like that. He said that he loves me and that he’s in love with me but not the same way that I’m in love with him. When I ask what does he mean, he saids that he dosen’t have the qualitys in him as I. For I come from a very loving family. I don’t think he knows how to love? He has good qualities and means well. I ask him all the time if he feels that maybe I should move out and he tells me no. He’s not very affectionate. Sometimes he’ll put his arms around me an gives me a kiss. Or a kiss on my forehead. He always tells me that he loves me. But when I mention the word Marriage, he goes through the roof. He dosen’t like me mentioning the word. He was never married, and is about to retire in the next few months. I love this man, I want to be his wife, but as far as he’s concerned he tells me don’t you like living like this, why? do we need that piece of paper. He said that he has no knowledge of marriage, I told him marriage is just like the way we are living and shareing everything together. He said we could have a happy life together this way. I can’t understand it. Also, he always lived alone, and likes being alone. He likes being together but he also likes being alone. He said that he thinks better this way. He like quiet and peace. Sometimes when I talk, he asked me not to talk because he likes silence? So try to figure out this one. How do you land a guy like this. Thanks for listering to me. Michele

]]> http://www.askelainenow.com/blog/commitment-advice/what-will-turn-his-lack-of-commitment-into-a-commitment-for-you.html/comment-page-1#comment-23 Bojana Latinovic Sat, 24 Jul 2010 08:12:02 +0000 http://www.askelainenow.com/blog/?p=1333#comment-23 Ooo you really "hit the spot" talking about EGO :) That is so true :) Ooo you really “hit the spot” talking about EGO That is so true

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