Wondering if you have to change to get Mr Right?

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Most women wonder if they have to change to get their Mr Right, and they wonder this because they have tried to change the guy and that doesn’t work over the long term, so do you have to change to get a Mr Right into your life?

Well it’s a funny thing about change, we all want it when things are going badly for us, yet we fear it and resist it at the same time.  Change has a double edged sword but without it, you will find it difficult to get those things you currently want but don’t have.  So my short answer is yes, in order for you to get your Mr Right, you  will have to change, let me explain why,how and where.

If where you are at this moment in time is without a suitable man in your life,  you may be single or married but you’re not happy with who you ended up with, then in order to get something different something has to change.  Are you with me?

This is why you may need to change to get your Mr Right.

Now that ‘something’ could be anything from standing up for yourself, saying no or expressing what you really believe or keeping quiet, whatever it is, some aspect of your behaviour or reaction has to change, or be modified.

So this is where you might have to change to get Mr Right.

In a previous post I wrote about Mr Right being developed and not necessarily instant, so you might actually have the seeds of your Mr Right right there in front of you and a small tweak in your behaviour, attitude or reaction can transform the situation and make it easier for him to be your Mr Right.

This is how you may need to change to get your Mr Rigtht.

So let’ dig into those three areas a little more and start with your behaviour.

You know that your behaviour comes from your thoughts- in the main- so if you think you can’t do something then it makes it harder for you to do that thing comfortably.  So with your Mr Right, if you act like you are un worthy and don’t deserve him, then that is not going to make it easy for him to treat you well, and it will make it easy for a relationship bad boy to treat you as your self image dictates.

And it’s the same with your attitude and reaction.  A slight change in your attitude can tell a relationship bad boy to sling his hook, and make our Mr Right find you utterly appealing, but it’s knowing what you can say to yourself and believe that which will make this easier for you to accomplish.

Now the thing about change is that once you have your sights set on only having quality men in your life, that will change your focus away from entertaining the relationship bad boys and only allowing your Mr Right to enter your space.

So yes, you will have to change some aspect of what you do, how you do it, or at the very least modify your behaviour and attitude to get your Mr Right if what you are doing now is only getting you relationship bad boys.

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