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There aren’t many women who don’t want to know what’s really going on in a guy’s mind, but whilst you’re dating and keeping an eye on a possible future with him, what do you think it means when he says he doesn’t want to settle down, or is not ready to have a serious relationship with you?

That he wants to keep things light?

Does this mean just for now or for ever?

This is one of the more confusing questions women ask and I’ve asked myself this as well. To attract a single guy seems to be the easier part of eventually being able to settle down with a guy , but how do you keep him?

Part of the way to keep your guy is to learn the cues to what is really going on in a guys mind so you stand a better chance of understand what men really mean.

So the way I’ll answer this is to give you two ways to look at the initial question.

The first way is to take literally what he is saying to you. If he is verbally saying that he wants to keep things light, that he doesn’t want to be in a serious relationship with you then take it as read that this is exactly what he means. At least for now.

You see the other way to looking at this is think about what a guy is looking for when he says this because you and I both know that a guy who has said this to you ends up getting married and settling down with someone else, and so the question is why her not you?

So what is it that she knows how to do to attract a single guy and keep him that you may be missing?

What may be missing is what a guy is looking for and has to have before he settles down or at least before he feels comfortable to think about getting into a serious relationship with someone.

So what’s missing?

You being the full package as far as he is concerned.  This has been shown to be what’s really going on in a guys mind when they are more ready than not to settle down.

The full package is when you are confident, self assured, not needy or overly clingy and most important you are able to manage and look after the emotional side of your relationship without it having a negative effect on him.

So this means somehow being able to switch off a little from the stresses of life and not let it affect how you treat or relate to him.

Now I know this sounds like you won’t be able to talk to him about stuff, and that’s not what I’m saying. I’m saying being in a place where no matter what’s going on that is stressful to you, it is not making you pay less attention to him, it’s not making you take your frustrations out on him- it’s obviously a factor in your mood, but not to the detriment to how you relate to him. ( and of course the same goes the other way he should be the same way with you)

So that lady who managed to attract her single guy and get him to commit to her was able to convey to the guy that far from being an emotional burden to him and put a strain on the relationship, she was able to express how she felt, get some sort of closure on it all without it negatively affecting their relationship.

And more importantly because she knew this was what is a concern to guys she was able to use what she knew about what would be really going on in a guys mind to her advantage.

So for you, when the right guy sees that you are able to be both independent and interdependent, he’s going to feel a whole lot more comfortable wanting to be in a serious relationship with you.

Hope that helps.

And in part two- I’ll talk you about what it means when he says he wants his space or time alone.

Until the next time…

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