Want to know why you attract the wrong men?

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It goes without saying that if you want  to stop attracting the wrong men, and want a man to like you, then you are going to have to have some pretty nifty tricks up your sleeve if you are in the habit to attract the wrong men.  Here are 5 things you may be doing that are attracting the wrong men.

1.         Lust blindness.

Lust is not a bad thing, it can be fun, exciting and if a relationship didn’t have this element, then it would quickly die- but where some women maybe going wrong is mistaking lust- that intense feeling that sends tingles down your spine, as compatibility, and this is a classic behaviour that allows you to attract the wrong me.

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You see it can be very hard to imagine not having anything in common with a guy who makes you feel so intense,  but lust has nothing to do with real compatibility.  When lust has gone through it’s natural cycle, and calmed down a bit, it’s only then that these women realise that this behaviour attracts the wrong men, and  they really don’t get on that well- you see if you took away the sex- what would be left?

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2.         If you hang out at bars or clubs and to a certain extent on line, then it’s unlikely that the men you meet are thinking of long term relationship happiness with the next woman they meet.  They are usually thinking of short term fun and that is okay unless of course you are expecting more than that.

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If you regularly attract the wrong men, then leave this one out if you are serious about settling down.

3.         If you’re the type who does indeed attract the wrong men, then it’s not that your attraction radar is off, it’s more that it isn’t yet tuned to the kind of man you’re looking for.  And if you end up dating or living with a man who you know isn’t the best, then you are not giving yourself  a chance to meet your Mr Right, because you’re busy keeping Mr Wrong in your life.

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4.         We all have habits and it’s no different when you’re picking the kind of men you want to date- and it’s these habits that can potentially derail your attempts to meet your Mr Right.  You see your habit maybe that you attract the wrong men, even without thinking about it, if this is so, then you need to re assess your habits  to find another type of guy much more appealing.

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Your habit to attract the wrong men  has already created it’s own comfort zone and though you may want to change it, you first need to be aware that this is your habit and then consciously choose to change this.

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5.         Unconsciously we all send messages to the opposite sex, and if you always attract the wrong men, then unconsciously that’s what you’re giving off.  However, if you change your view on your capability of finding the right man for you, this will increase your self confidence, and ‘man’ confidence, and allow  you will give off a different air when you are out looking for your Mr Right,  it is what those women who get any man can do.

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Before you can get a man- the type of man you want to like you then you first need to look at what is stopping you from the habit of attracting the wrong men.  Ask yourself  what is getting in the way,  and once you’ve found the answer, think about changing something of what you do,  then you are well on your way to attracting the right kind of man for you.

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