How Do I Attract A Guy Who Will Love Me Deeply pt3
Want to know how to attract a guy who will love you deeply?
Then watch the last video and read the last intallment in this series below.
The last time we spoke, I talked about attracting a guy using your personality as a way to get him to love you deeply, because it’s the one thing that will hook your guy and make him not want to let you go. And for those of you who don’t get why this is, let me go over it again. Stimulating his mind as well as his physical senses completes the attraction package.
Just think of yourself for instance. If you attract a guy who is nice on the eye, and has a great personality and of course treats you well, then you are going to want to keep him over the guy who looks good- he’s hot and all that, but you have nothing to talk about.
Or even the guy who has the personality but he doesn’t do it for you physically, though he has more of a chance than the first guy.
A guy who has it all, is a dream guy, is who would be your soul mate- but there is one thing that will almost guarantee to squash any hopes of attracting any guy to you never mind your soul mate. And that’s…..
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baggage.
How to repel a guy
If you have been in a relationship which ended badly, or you got hurt, you will understandably have scars. It happens to us all, but the thing that stop you from being able to attract a guy you’ve worked hard to attract is if you still carry the emotional scars- or the baggage from your previous relationship and it has coloured how you see men and him in particular.
You see if you have unfortunately had your trust bubble burst because you’ve been messed around, cheated on, and otherwise been treated less than well by previous guys, you may now be carrying around those emotional scars so badly that they are dictating how you treat the next guy that come along.
You may be acting in a way to try an punish a guy for the wrongs other guys have done, or you may be more mistrustful of guys and want him to ‘prove’ his love for you over and over. You may have learnt how to play mind games with men because this seemed to work in the past. And worst of all you may not even know that you are acting in this way at all.
You may be putting men off and not know it
So let me say that to you again- you may not even know that you are carrying around any baggage, and as obvious as it can seem to others, or even you about someone else, it doesn’t mean that you are aware that you are being suspicious, or mistrustful, or insecure, or needy- you simply are being you wondering why you are not able to attract the right guy.
So this last technique, which again isn’t really a technique is to increase your self awareness about how you are when you are in a relationship. Now I know this isn’t sexy, but it’s fundamental to you attracting your soul mate and keeping him- I mean there is nothing worse than having a personality trait that puts men off but no one told you.
So let me play devils advocate here, and tell you that let’s just say that the reason you’ve not met ‘the one’ yet is partly to do with something about you- yes of course he was a jerk, but you have a scratchy bit to your behaviour that isn’t helping. And as I said to you a moment ago, it has come from how you were treated by previous guys which you haven’t let go of because you aren’t aware of it being a repellent – is this a possibility, even a little?
I had to ask you, because I want you to attract the right guy and keep him for life, so as difficult as this subject is to bring up, I want to tell you that this could possibly be a factor and I want you to be more aware if it if it is.
If it is, then I’ll support you- just contact me. If it isn’t then phew! that’s over and done with, and you can find more attraction techniques’ in my FREE report The Top 10 Secrets To Increasing Your Irresistibility And Marrying Your Ideal Man which you can get by subscribing to the video in the side bar– it’s a great report.
So to summarise- to attract a guy you need physical weapons of attraction, but don’t rely on them. You need to let your personality show as this is really compelling to men, and you need to be aware if you have any scratchy bits to your behaviour or personality that is repelling the guys you meet.
So am I right? do you agree? Let me know.
Speak to you soon.

