Is He Really Into You? Are You Sure?
Author: Elaine Bothwell
Want to know if he is really into you
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Do you know if your man really wants to be in a relationship? And whether he wants to be in a relationship with YOU? Do you want to know if he is really into you?
My aim is to help you attract and date the right man for you, but how would you know if he was really into you and wanted to be in a relationship and if he wants to be in one with you?
If you are you worried that he may not like you as much as you like him, then read on
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So I want to talk to you about how you can detect whether the man you’re with or one you’ve got your eye on really is into you as much as you are into him. Why should you know this, so you can avoid getting hurt- I mean we all know love, romance, relationships and dating all come with a – ‘dangerous to your heart’ warning unless you know what you’re doing- so listen up, I’ll make this dangerous pastime safer for you.
Because I like people watching, if I have time I like to watch reality TV just to analyse the behaviour of the people in it. I’m always fascinated by why they do what they do and more importantly what does it take to get someone to like you, do as you want and love doing it?
And the best place for me to do my people watching is on the latest Big Brother series being screen in the UK at the time of me talking to you. Now before you poo, poo the fact that I watch this program- it really will help you get your Mr Right – if you know what to look for.
So back to my original question, how would you know if the man you’re interested in really does like YOU and if he even wants to be in a relationship?
Well here are two scenarios for you to think about.
Scenario 1- Female 1 likes Male A and they hit it off ‘big time’. They spend all their time together and they are now a ‘couple’ within the house.
Scenario 2- Male B, C, D & E all like Female 2. They are all very different personalities but literally fight- at least verbally for her attention.
Both female 1 and 2 are attractive, one obviously so, the other more sexy than pretty.
Male A- has other friends in the house and one breakfast time he makes his cereal and there is only enough for one more serving- who does he give this to? Nope, not his girlfriend, but his male mate.
Female 2 on the other hand has males B, C, D & E all vying for her attention and will do whatever they can to help her and give to her.
Now my question is why?
But before I answer that- is Male A really into Female 1?
Well the clue is in what he did with the cereal- he didn’t give it to his girlfriend; he gave it to his male mate. So she’s not exactly a priority is she?
And that wasn’t just it, there are other clues here. If he wants fun and laughter does he have this with his girlfriend? No again- with his male mate? The time he spends with his girlfriend is spent kissing and cuddling.
Last clue, when they are together and do get to talk, he doesn’t open up and tell her about his life outside, nor does he want to admit too readily that he has feelings for her. Big clues don’t you think- he’s really not that comfortable with her is he?
Now let’s go back to female 2-
All the males tell her how gorgeous she is- some even having girlfriends on the ‘outside’. They are not afraid to have a laugh with her and love hanging out with her, and they open up and tell her ‘stuff’ about who they are and what they stand for.
Now I won’t go into why she gets this and female 1 doesn’t because the aim is for you to detect those subtle signs that your man a) wants to be in a relationship and b) that he wants to be in one with you.
So did you get the clues- here they are if you didn’t get them
Clue 1. He has to make you a priority and it has to be natural. Asking him to spend time with you doesn’t count. What does he naturally want to do? This way you know he’s really into you. Our guy had fun with someone else and didn’t show signs that a relationship was that high on his list of values, laughing and having fun, were though.
Clue2. When you are together you have to have a laugh, fun, and do matey as well as relationship things together because if you do then he sees you as someone whom he can share more than just a kiss and a cuddle with.
Clue 3. He has to be able to tell others that he feels strongly for you- yes even our Neanderthal male, because if he finds it difficult admitting this, then that’s a red flag that he’s not that into you. Think of it this way, if 4 guys on national TV can do that then a guy with his mates and family should be able to do that also-do you not think?
So this is how to tell whether he’s really into you and wants to be in a relationship and more importantly with you.
So what if you knew how to capture the heart of your Mr Right, and what if you could make yourself irresistible to men so they treat you like female 2 in my story? What difference would that make for your marriage prospects?
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