Want to know how to be sure you should end your relationship?

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Coupled with wondering whether you’ve met the right man for you or not comes this question, how can you be sure you’re not making a mistake when you end a relationship?  And the only person who can help you know if that is true is you.

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The only way you’re going to know if you should end your relationship is by taking some sort of action, making a decision about whether you should leave or stay and that’s the only way you can gauge whether you made the right decision or not.

In any relationship with a man there will be times when you’ve known categorically that you made the right decision to leave and at other times you won’t be so clear, so what’s the difference and can you use that knowledge to help you at this moment in time?

One of the differences is how obviously this guy didn’t meet your needs.  You see it’s not enough to say that if he treats you badly then you’ll finish with him, because that has proven to not be strictly true.

But what is a deciding factor for most people is whether it’s obvious to you that this man can not give you anything of what you want or need, more specifically something that is truly important to you.  When you think of it in these terms it gets easier to know whether you should end your relationship and whether that was a good decision to make.

Let’s just say for example that spending time with you and your family is so important to you that you would forgo a high paid salary from you and your husband in order to have the close bond and time spent together.

But let’s say before you married your husband you had gone out with a man who worked away 5 nights out of 7 and that was his job for the foreseeable future, it will be a lot easier for you to end that kind of relationship because not only will you feel lonely now, your children won’t have the kind of father you want them to have.

So in this instance- an easy decision.

But let’s say he works away but only on occasion, then the decision becomes harder and in that instance you are going to allow yourself to fall for this guy.  And it is only over time will you know whether you have made the right decision or not by how you feel, and depending on how happy you have been over time will go toward helping you decide whether you should end your relationship or not.

You may feel that your relationship doesn’t get the time it needs to be strong, that you don’t have enough fun or that you are not as close because he works long hours and goes away say every 3 months for a week or two at a time.  Whatever the scenario, you can only go on how that makes you feel as the measurement to how happy you are about  your situation

And from this, you will start to understand the effect this is having on you.

And the best way to know is if I ask you a question or three – Does he make you feel special?   Does he make you happy?  Do you feel proud and privileged to have him in your life?

These questions are crucial to gauge your true feelings by your immediate response to this.

And if there are doubts, not sures, or niggles then take these as red flags that something in your relationship needs attention.  And it’s only by reviewing how many of those little red flags there are for you, that will tell you whether you should end your relationship.

Everything depends on what you want- so if you don’t feel you can get what you want from a man, then you  will need to make a decision, whether to stay or go.  No one can be absolutely sure that they are making the right decision to end a relationship, the only thing you can do is decide whether your needs are being met and how happy he makes you.

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