How long  should you wait till you start a new relationship?

Watch the video and then read the short article below, they will give you some ideas. 

If you have been in a Long term relationship then the answer to how long should you wait until you start a new relationship will be different than if you  have only been with him for a short while.  And you need to consider how much you invested in the relationship as a guide to how long it will take you to get over it,  before you can know how long you should wait until you start on another new relationship. 

And this is the key, you need to first get over the relationship before you should move on and start a new relationship.  Now of course you can move on finish with him on day, hook up with someone else the next, but that won’t help you and it certainly won’t help the new guy.

The aim of me talking to you like this and the reason why you’ve asked this question is because you want to find the right man for you, do you not?  And the best way to do that is to be in an emotional state where not only would you be able to attract your Mr Right, but also keep him.

It’s only then that you will be in a good position to know when to start a new relationship

If you are still carrying baggage from the last relationship because you haven’t had sufficient closure, then you will inadvertently sabotage your next relationship and I know this isn’t what you really want to do.

So, even if you have been in a long term relationship or a short term one, if you have invested emotionally into it, then you first need to get yourself into the position of being comfortable that it’s finally over and you’re okay now.

Once you are here, then you  can work on getting complete closure but you can still have a new relationship even with partial closure.  Remember though, that the more you can be objective and non emotional about your ex and how you were together, the better chance you stand of starting a new relationship with the right kind of man for you and keeping him for life.

And this is the mistake some women make, they feel the need to move on too quickly into the arms of another not realising that it is making it harder for her to be in the right place emotionally to meet the right guy for her.

We’ve all done it, but it not the best way to get what you want and need.

So  how will you know you have  closure?

Full closure is when you think about your ex, there is nothing.  There are no strong emotions either way, it feels dead, and buried, and you can think about him and no negativity comes up in your body to make you feel bad, and nothing positive either.

It will be just like an old school boyfriend, there is no emotion left just faint memories.

Partial closure is when you are able to get on with your life and only occasionally will you feel negativity toward him.

And how long will all this take?

As long as is necessary, but if you have coaching or some other intervention the time is significantly reduced.

So when you are here, that is when you will know that you are ready to start a new relationship.

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