The Relationship Laws Of Attraction Will Your Relationship Last part 1
Author: Elaine Bothwell
What Are The Tell Tale Signs That Your Relationship Wasn’t Meant To Last Part 1
Relationship laws of attraction- helping you attract your ideal man
Want to know the signs that your relationship wasn’t meant to last?
Watch the video and read the article to make sure this isn’t happening to you
No matter how much you want your relationship to work and no matter what you do to make your relationship work, if you aren’t doing this one thing then your relationship can not last.
Want to know what the tell tale signs that your relationship wasn’t meant to last are?
It’s what we’ve spoken about before- your focus.
At the route of every relationship breakdown is one or both of the couple focusing on what they don’t like, want or even hate about the other person that slowly but surely signals that that relationship won’t last.
You see if one or both within the relationship have a focus of what they’d want to change in the other, or what’s not right, or how annoyed they feel with the other person, not only are they setting up what is called a negative anchor toward that person, but they are also setting up the relationship to fail- because of where their focus is.
These relationship tell tale signs are there from the very beginning- you just have to be aware of them
The Relationship laws of attraction are based on the timeless laws of energy of how like attracts like. If you are focused so exclusively on what is not right, what needs changing about the relationship or the other person, then that’s exactly what you’ll get more of, be attuned to and spend most of your energy attracting- you can’t attract anything else.
And the reason why this is a tell tale sign that that the relationship won’t last is because of the idea that what we focus on expands.
Let me explain.
If you focus on how bad something is, then over time all you will see is what is bad- what you are focusing on has expanded. So let’s take a trivial annoyance for most women, leaving the toilet seat up.
Each time your partner leaves the toilet seat up you get annoyed so much so that every time you walk into your bathroom your immediate thoughts go to how he ‘always’ leaves the seat up and you get agitated. Over time this leads you to noticing all the other little things he does to annoy you and now that’s what your energy is focused on- what he does to annoy you.
Now despite the general belief that men aren’t as tuned into emotions as women, if every time you’re around him you’re thinking about how he‘s not doing x or y, it will show and he will pick it up. There are few of us who can’t tell when someone is off with us.
And like all things if you get yourself into that habit of only noticing what he hasn’t done that’s where your energy will stay and that will doom the relationship not to last.
So, if you do as I’ve already suggested in another article in this series and start to a campaign of gratitude not only will it help you in this relationship but if you want to start over with someone new you will be in a better chance of it lasting.
For more ways in which to attract your soul mate- check out my FREE online course- How to attract your soul mate.
And in part 2 of this article I will show you how to change your luck in love if you feel you never get the right guys and you fear you’ll be left all alone.
Until then keep well.
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