How Can I Tell If He’s The One?
Author: Elaine Bothwell
Want to know how to tell if he’s ‘the one’?
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If you’ve been reading the other posts then you will have a few tricks up your sleeve to help you tell whether the man you’re with and considering giving your heart to is indeed the one or not.
And I have another even more powerful technique, not so much a technique but a way of thinking which will make all the other techniques fit nicely. And it is based on a particular mantra of mine which is.
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“LISTEN TO WHAT THEY SAY AND WATCH WHAT THEY DO”
Now this mantra is one of my more closely guarded secrets that helps me solicit the right frame of mind, the right mindset that has served me well since I was a teenager. Now I have no idea where I got this from, but it works. It works in helping you to know if you have finally found the one or not.
The way it works is by helping you to keep that objectivity I spoke to you about before at the forefront of your mind, it helps you really use your heart as well as your head and not just your heart to make your relationship decisions.
You see when you are in the throws of passion with your latest beau, it can be difficult to be objective when he’s being attentive, telling you all the things you love to hear, and on the surface he’s acting like he could be ‘the one’.
You need your own best friend here, and this is where this comes in. This mantra really does act as your best friend because it forces you to see what’s actually going on here, and if you use it diligently you will find yourself really knowing what you are letting yourself in for – and that my friend is such a good thing for you.
So all you need to do is adopt this mantra, and you will find a few interesting things. Firstly you will find that your man is either consistent in what he tells you or he isn’t. You will notice whether what he values is what you value. You will notice how easy it if for him to follow through on what he says. And it will help you see his limitations.
These small things let you know if he is ‘the one’ and as small as they are they are significant in the happiness of your life with someone
The thing I want you to take from this is not only does this mantra help you see who your man really is, it also helps you decide that despite his failings, you can live with that and he gets the green light without having to be perfect first. Because if you already know he’s a dreamer but that doesn’t really affect you because you’re the go getting type of gal, then there is nothing lost here.
This isn’t about finding perfection, it is about knowing what you are letting yourself in for.
So my friend LISTEN TO WHAT HE SAYS AND WATCH WHAT HE DOES- and then you’ll know if he is ‘the one’.
Speak to you soon
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