How to ensure a man treats you well?

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There are so many ways to ensure that a man treats you well, and not just the men you are romantically involved with, but all men in different contexts,  but my favourite is not an external technique but an internal one, and it starts with your attitude.

Remember back to the post I wrote about mindset, well this is how you get to have your man treat you well.  You start with expectation.

You start with expecting that you will be treated well, expecting that you are worthy of being treated well and being surprised when you are not.

Now as easy as this is to say, it’s not so easy for me to convey what it feels like when you expect something because from that expectation comes a very different way in which you will carry yourself.  You will be assessed differently by the men you meet, and treated differently as a result.

It is important though that you truly believe yourself to be worthy of being treated well before this can be effective.  And as much as you may say you do, it is surprising how many women don’t have that expectation to the extent that they insist on it and keep on insisting on it.

And that is the second part of expectation.  You must be willing to insist that others treat you as your self image dictates.

To give you an example, think about the people you have known for a while and your first impression of them.  Some of them will give an air of ‘don’t mess with me’ others of ‘ hi I’m here to help’ and others still of ‘ I like you’ the reason why you can see that so plainly is because they already have those inner beliefs, that inner attitude that exudes that for them, and that’s where I’d like you to get with this.

With expecting others to treat you well, not only is that what you will see, when someone doesn’t, you will pick up on it almost immediately and insist that they change their attitude or they are out of here.  I am of course talking about men, because if your boss doesn’t treat you well, then there are very different ways to tackle that.

With our relationship bad boy, having this expectation will at first be seen as a challenge for some of them to try and break, and as long as you are aware of this, you can stand your ground that you, will be treated with respect.  And of course if goes without saying that you treat others in that way also.

This tip is really powerful and if you cultivate it, you WILL  have your pick of the good men out there and you WILL  be treated well.

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