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How To Read What’s Going On In A Guy’s Mind pt2
Author: Elaine Bothwell
Want to know how to read what’s going on in a guy’s mind?
Watch this second video and read the article to have some secrets revealed to you.
If you want to settle down with a guy it pays to learn how to read what’s going on in a guys mind and in part 1 we looked at what it means if a guy says he doesn’t want to settle down with you and the second most common question women ask is – what does it mean if a guy says he wants his space or he wants to be alone?
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How To Read What’s Really Going On In A Guys Mind pt 1
Author: Elaine Bothwell
Want to know how to read what’s on a guys mind?
Watch this first video and read the short article to get some clues
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There aren’t many women who don’t want to know what’s really going on in a guy’s mind, but whilst you’re dating and keeping an eye on a possible future with him, what do you think it means when he says he doesn’t want to settle down, or is not ready to have a serious relationship with you?
That he wants to keep things light?
Does this mean just for now or for ever?
This is one of the more confusing questions women ask and I’ve asked myself this as well. To attract a single guy seems to be the easier part of eventually being able to settle down with a guy , but how do you keep him?
Part of the way to keep your guy is to learn the cues to what is really going on in a guys mind so you stand a better chance of understand what men really mean.
So the way I’ll answer this is to give you two ways to look at the initial question.
The first way is to take literally what he is saying to you. If he is verbally saying that he wants to keep things light, that he doesn’t want to be in a serious relationship with you then take it as read that this is exactly what he means. At least for now.
You see the other way to looking at this is think about what a guy is looking for when he says this because you and I both know that a guy who has said this to you ends up getting married and settling down with someone else, and so the question is why her not you?
So what is it that she knows how to do to attract a single guy and keep him that you may be missing?
What may be missing is what a guy is looking for and has to have before he settles down or at least before he feels comfortable to think about getting into a serious relationship with someone.
So what’s missing?
You being the full package as far as he is concerned. This has been shown to be what’s really going on in a guys mind when they are more ready than not to settle down.
The full package is when you are confident, self assured, not needy or overly clingy and most important you are able to manage and look after the emotional side of your relationship without it having a negative effect on him.
So this means somehow being able to switch off a little from the stresses of life and not let it affect how you treat or relate to him.
Now I know this sounds like you won’t be able to talk to him about stuff, and that’s not what I’m saying. I’m saying being in a place where no matter what’s going on that is stressful to you, it is not making you pay less attention to him, it’s not making you take your frustrations out on him- it’s obviously a factor in your mood, but not to the detriment to how you relate to him. ( and of course the same goes the other way he should be the same way with you)
So that lady who managed to attract her single guy and get him to commit to her was able to convey to the guy that far from being an emotional burden to him and put a strain on the relationship, she was able to express how she felt, get some sort of closure on it all without it negatively affecting their relationship.
And more importantly because she knew this was what is a concern to guys she was able to use what she knew about what would be really going on in a guys mind to her advantage.
So for you, when the right guy sees that you are able to be both independent and interdependent, he’s going to feel a whole lot more comfortable wanting to be in a serious relationship with you.
Hope that helps.
And in part two- I’ll talk you about what it means when he says he wants his space or time alone.
Until the next time…
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Is He Really Into You? Are You Sure?
Author: Elaine Bothwell
Want to know if he is really into you
Watch the video and read the article to find out
Do you know if your man really wants to be in a relationship? And whether he wants to be in a relationship with YOU? Do you want to know if he is really into you?
My aim is to help you attract and date the right man for you, but how would you know if he was really into you and wanted to be in a relationship and if he wants to be in one with you?
If you are you worried that he may not like you as much as you like him, then read on
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Is There Anyway To Tell Whether I Have Got The Right Man Or Not?
Author: Elaine Bothwell
Want to be able to tell if you have the right man or not?
Watch the video and read the article below for answers
This must be the $1 million question because if every woman could tell before hand whether the man she was with was right for her or not before she became attached to him, then she wouldn’t ever get hurt- now wouldn’t that be great!
And as much as never getting hurt is a fantasy none of us will ever realise, we can come close by paying attention to the clues he leaves us and learning how to decipher them to help us avoid as much emotional turmoil as possible.
Those clues come from what he will say to us and in some instances what he doesn’t say.
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How Do I Stop Myself Falling For The Wrong Guy?
Author: Elaine Bothwell
How do you stop yourself falling for the wrong guy?
Watch the video and read the article to find your answers
The short answer to how do you stop yourself falling for the wrong guy is to have a certain level of objectivity about you when you are dating guys. When you do this you are able to detect before things move on too quickly whether he’s the right man for you.
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Do Relationships With Relationship Bad Boys Last?
Author: Elaine Bothwell
Do you wonder if relationships with bad boys last?
Watch the video and read the article to make sure you don’t get stuck with a bad boy.
Let me first explain what I mean when I say relationship bad boy. I mean the kind of man who is so selfish or self absorbed that his main concern is only about getting his needs met within a relationship and his girlfriends needs are not really on his radar.
For whatever reason a relationship bad boy can’t or won’t focus on anything outside of himself and that is not the stuff of relationship dreams. So for that reason my short answer is no, I don’t believe a relationship with a relationship bad boy will last over the long term, no matter how much you want it to.
