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The relationship Laws of Attraction Why Forgiveness Attracts True Love pt1
Author: Elaine Bothwell
Relationship Laws of Attraction- Helping you attract your ideal man
Did you know that if you don’t forgive EFFECTIVELY that you will find it difficult to attract your soul mate?
Watch the video and read the short article which will stop this happening to you
In part 1 of this article I introduced you to the idea that forgiveness – the way that you forgive is what you need to be able to do properly if you want to be happy in your love life. I also introduced you to two ways we are taught to forgive and which way simply doesn’t work.
In this part, I want to carry on where I left off and tell you why it’s imperative that you get to the ‘so what’ stage.
It’s like this when you think about anything that happened years and years ago, time has healed the wound and if someone were to bring up the incident your attitude would almost be a ‘so what, it happened years ago, it means nothing to me now’ and this is the place I want you to get to sooner rather than later.
This is the most effective way to forgive and this is the kind of forgiveness that works.
To help you understand better what forgiveness is let me tell you this- forgiveness isn’t about the other person, not at all, it’s all about you.
The common notion that you are forgiving someone else is misleading because it’s really about allowing you to let go of the resistance to positivity in your life. And why? To help you raise or change your energy vibrations so you keep your positivity open to attract what you want in your love life.
The benefits as you can see are two fold. On a practical level you are letting go of something that was not nice and when you do it no longer affects you- and because of this you have the right vibe about you to attract that kind of love you do want to experience.
So by accelerating the process and consciously getting yourself to the so what part of this you are completely letting go of any ties to past relationships that didn’t work for you and now are truly free.
Do you get why this is vital for you to do?
Believe me when I say this absolutely works and I do appreciate that it’s really challenging, and do it anyway- go for it as your love life is surely worth it- is it not?
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Well, have you signed up for my FREE online course How to attract your soul mate? In there you’ll be taken step by step through the process of attracting your soul mate – check it out to day.
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The Relationship Laws of Attraction Will Your Relationship Last? pt 2
Author: Elaine Bothwell
What Are The Tell Tale Signs That Your Relationship Wasn’t Meant To Last Part 2
Relationship laws of attraction- helping you attract your ideal man
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The Relationship Laws Of Attraction Will Your Relationship Last part 1
Author: Elaine Bothwell
What Are The Tell Tale Signs That Your Relationship Wasn’t Meant To Last Part 1
Relationship laws of attraction- helping you attract your ideal man
Want to know the signs that your relationship wasn’t meant to last?
Watch the video and read the article to make sure this isn’t happening to you
No matter how much you want your relationship to work and no matter what you do to make your relationship work, if you aren’t doing this one thing then your relationship can not last.
Want to know what the tell tale signs that your relationship wasn’t meant to last are?
It’s what we’ve spoken about before- your focus.
At the route of every relationship breakdown is one or both of the couple focusing on what they don’t like, want or even hate about the other person that slowly but surely signals that that relationship won’t last.
You see if one or both within the relationship have a focus of what they’d want to change in the other, or what’s not right, or how annoyed they feel with the other person, not only are they setting up what is called a negative anchor toward that person, but they are also setting up the relationship to fail- because of where their focus is.
These relationship tell tale signs are there from the very beginning- you just have to be aware of them
The Relationship laws of attraction are based on the timeless laws of energy of how like attracts like. If you are focused so exclusively on what is not right, what needs changing about the relationship or the other person, then that’s exactly what you’ll get more of, be attuned to and spend most of your energy attracting- you can’t attract anything else.
And the reason why this is a tell tale sign that that the relationship won’t last is because of the idea that what we focus on expands.
Let me explain.
If you focus on how bad something is, then over time all you will see is what is bad- what you are focusing on has expanded. So let’s take a trivial annoyance for most women, leaving the toilet seat up.
Each time your partner leaves the toilet seat up you get annoyed so much so that every time you walk into your bathroom your immediate thoughts go to how he ‘always’ leaves the seat up and you get agitated. Over time this leads you to noticing all the other little things he does to annoy you and now that’s what your energy is focused on- what he does to annoy you.
Now despite the general belief that men aren’t as tuned into emotions as women, if every time you’re around him you’re thinking about how he‘s not doing x or y, it will show and he will pick it up. There are few of us who can’t tell when someone is off with us.
And like all things if you get yourself into that habit of only noticing what he hasn’t done that’s where your energy will stay and that will doom the relationship not to last.
So, if you do as I’ve already suggested in another article in this series and start to a campaign of gratitude not only will it help you in this relationship but if you want to start over with someone new you will be in a better chance of it lasting.
For more ways in which to attract your soul mate- check out my FREE online course- How to attract your soul mate.
And in part 2 of this article I will show you how to change your luck in love if you feel you never get the right guys and you fear you’ll be left all alone.
Until then keep well.
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Relationship Law of Attraction-Attract Your Ideal Man pt2
Author: Elaine Bothwell
Relationship laws of attraction helping you attract your ideal man
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Relationship Laws Of Attraction – Attract Your Ideal Man pt 1
Author: Elaine Bothwell
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The relationship laws of attraction state that the kind of energy you give to what you want will determine whether you get it or not- so in relationship terms this means if you are not getting the kind of love you want then it maybe because you are repelling instead of attracting what you truly want and you then won’t have your soul mate in your life.
So here’s how to reverse this
Firstly you need to be aware that if deep within you, you are not at peace it will be difficult for you to have the kind of relationship you yearn for.
Why? Because in the laws of attraction everything we do, everything we have or create is so because of the type and quality of the energy we give out. If you are not at peace then the energy you give out will not be able to attract the kind of love you want and this is why you inadvertently end up repelling the very thing you want.
The way to get this back into balance is to start on a quest of gratitude. It has been found that if you now start to be grateful for what you have in your life you change the kind of energy you give out and in turn that allows you to attract the kind of love you want.
This is one of the simplest teaching from the law of attraction which works equally well in the relationship laws of attraction
So the simplest thing for you to do is to look at your life and consciously find all those things you are grateful for, and here’s the kicker- you still have to do this with things in your life that you don’t like.
Here’s how it goes.
You may be in a relationship with the wrong type of man at present and so you won’t be thinking very positive thoughts about him all the time- and if you aren’t then this is going to undo any work you’re doing to be grateful in other areas.
So you have to find something positive within all areas of your life and then you will start to attract the kind of love you want- or at least the kind of positive experiences you want.
So if you’ve wondered why despite all your hard work, or even how much you want the love of your life in your life and he’s not appeared, this is one reason for it- you aren’t at the right vibrational frequency to attract him, you may in fact be breaking the relationship law of attraction teachings without knowing ti. And the way to change this is to start on a campaign of gratitude.
And in the second part of this article- I’ll talk to you about why gratitude isn’t enough, what other things you need to be aware of so you have the love of your life in your life. See you then
So do you agree? Have you found that you have attracted your ideal man without having to change your thoughts? Let me know.
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